From Sperm Bank to Vasectomy: The Story of My Sexless Marriage, Part 1

The hoops I had to jump through, and the lessons I learned along the way.

Time is a created thing. To say ‘I don’t have time,’ is like saying, ‘I don’t want to.’ — Lao Tzu

Wishful Thinking

Deep down I knew my wife would never have sex with me, but I was married so had nothing to lose. We’d play the same predictable game each week, me asking, her rejecting. Having a headache couldn’t work forever, so her denials…